Inner Work

Attachment & love language

Attachment style

I worry my partner will leave me.

Strongly disagreeStrongly agree

I prefer keeping my independence over deep intimacy.

Strongly disagreeStrongly agree

I feel safe expressing my feelings in close relationships.

Strongly disagreeStrongly agree

I find it hard to trust — relationships feel confusing.

Strongly disagreeStrongly agree

I need a lot of reassurance to feel loved.

Strongly disagreeStrongly agree

I shut down when someone gets too emotionally close.

Strongly disagreeStrongly agree

My partner and I can have hard conversations without falling apart.

Strongly disagreeStrongly agree

I want closeness and also push it away at the same time.

Strongly disagreeStrongly agree
Your tendency
secure
Love Language

I feel loved when someone tells me they appreciate me.

I feel loved when my person gives me undivided attention.

I feel loved when someone does things for me without being asked.

Meaningful gifts help me feel seen.

Hugs and closeness matter more to me than words.

Your top 2 love languages
  1. 1.Words of Affirmation
  2. 2.Quality Time